Being Your Own Nurse – Single Life

Photo:; Artist: DieterRobbins As much as being single has its many positive sides, there are those moments when a single person could use a partner to help. As the rain beats down outside making a sweet lullaby, I am in bed writhing in pain. Okay, maybe writhing is a bit strong but nevertheless I … Continue reading Being Your Own Nurse – Single Life


Dear Married People

Photo credit:; Artist: sasint Dear Married People, These are a few thoughts from your single friends who are not miserable. Let me be free to live the life I have chosen. Let me do what’s in my best interest. Sometimes, some of us were in a crappy situation and now are happy to just … Continue reading Dear Married People


Photo credit:; Artist: Concord90 Happy Valentine's Day to all the lovers or people who will be trying to fill their mandatory romance quota for the year - from yours truly,  a terminally single woman V-day had never packed much fanfare for me. I am not sure why it never really caught on. I guess … Continue reading V-Day

Superficial Friday

So, it was time for me to renew my passport. Like everyone else, I hate those dreaded mandatory pictures you have to take. Well, because I didn't rehearse my facial expressions, I had one bland look for the 6 photo op. When I got the pictures back, I HATED them. They looked like mug shots … Continue reading Superficial Friday

Getting Up & Out Difficulties

Some days are hard to get up. It's even more difficult to get dressed and get out. It is not necessarily depression because there is no sadness but a pitfall lack of motivation and a heap load of fatigue. There is not much juice left in the mind and body except to be lethargic and … Continue reading Getting Up & Out Difficulties

Eve’s Mistake Is Your Mistake

If you are not familiar with the story of Adam and Eve, then let me retell it briefly.  God told Adam and Eve to stay away from the tree of knowledge and one day while Adam was off doing his thing, Eve decided to investigate closely. She tasted the apple and wham they realized they … Continue reading Eve’s Mistake Is Your Mistake

Singles Fear – Vacation Party of One

Feel free to admit it. The thought of vacationing alone can be nerve-racking. Picture it, you are hot and ready to trot for a vacation. The price is right and the time is way overdue. You can already see yourself at your destination and the thought brings a huge ridiculous smile on your face. Hold on! You can … Continue reading Singles Fear – Vacation Party of One

The Unicorn Man

Here is my firm stance when it comes to men -They are not stupid (even though you do have a few) -They are not helpless babies with all thumbs -They are not stupid (I had to repeat this one for the delusional women) If you read enough of my blogs on this topic, then you know … Continue reading The Unicorn Man

Love My Perfect Imperfections

Yes, I did just take a line from John Legend's All of You. It has taken 42 years to get comfortable in my skin and accept my perfect imperfections. I still do fuss a little about them when I am in my mood but for the most part, I have come to realize that no … Continue reading Love My Perfect Imperfections