Quality Time: Role of Friends

On my Instagram, I wrote the following meme: This was in reaction to the message I kept seeing that said (paraphrase) you can still have a very close friendship when you catch up with each other every month or every few months and it will be like you haven't missed a thing. Two of my … Continue reading Quality Time: Role of Friends


The Piña Colada Song and Creating Relationship Escapes

'If you like Piña Colada and getting caught in the rain...' Escape - by Rupert Holmes has been dubbed the Piña Colada song. It's a very catchy tune and great for dueling piano bar sing along. Recently, I was listening to the words more closely and it occurred to me that in this catchy tune, … Continue reading The Piña Colada Song and Creating Relationship Escapes

Whose Grass Is Greener

  There are two predominant schools of thought when it comes to relationship: The grass is greener on the other side The grass on your side just needs to be watered and it will be as green as the next guy's When it comes to relationship and making connection with someone else, things are never … Continue reading Whose Grass Is Greener

A Woman’s Active Sex (Over)Drive

I am horny as hell and I just can't take it anymore. 🙂 . How many women have you heard say such an unladylike thing? How many Christian women would dare utter those words? 😮 .  I have been sitting on this post for a few month trying to decide whether I should be this forthright and then I thought … Continue reading A Woman’s Active Sex (Over)Drive

Marriage in Name Only

On a recent vacation, a friend of mine made a statement that I should not get too jaded. The topic had turned to marriage, well divorce actually her divorce after being married for over 20+ years. Most of the time, we talked about relationships because her situation is still fresh and painful. I did not … Continue reading Marriage in Name Only

Silence Is Golden

There are at least 1-2 people in our lives that we put in the important category. Whether it is lovers, friends or family, these are the people that we support and who can be supportive to us in one way or another. You may have heard the concept that honest and effective communication is important … Continue reading Silence Is Golden