Dating Anxiety

Don't get your hopes up 🙂 I haven't been on a date in ages... dinosaur ages I say. ... and I am okay with it. Is there something wrong with me? Nahhh. Bless you men and women out there who have the stamina to go on dates after dates and constantly meeting new people and … Continue reading Dating Anxiety


12 Reasons To Live

I was talking to a young man in his early 20s who has a chronic low mood. This was not my first time interacting with him and just like in the previous encounters, he projected the Eeyore (Winnie the Pooh) personality. He wants life to be easy. He wants life to be comfortable without having … Continue reading 12 Reasons To Live

Dear Married People

Photo credit:; Artist: sasint Dear Married People, These are a few thoughts from your single friends who are not miserable. Let me be free to live the life I have chosen. Let me do what’s in my best interest. Sometimes, some of us were in a crappy situation and now are happy to just … Continue reading Dear Married People

Quality Time: Role of Friends

On my Instagram, I wrote the following meme: This was in reaction to the message I kept seeing that said (paraphrase) you can still have a very close friendship when you catch up with each other every month or every few months and it will be like you haven't missed a thing. Two of my … Continue reading Quality Time: Role of Friends


Photo credit:; Artist: Concord90 Happy Valentine's Day to all the lovers or people who will be trying to fill their mandatory romance quota for the year - from yours truly,  a terminally single woman V-day had never packed much fanfare for me. I am not sure why it never really caught on. I guess … Continue reading V-Day

On the Mind Dominates the Heart

So I recently bumped into a blog in which the writer is very open and explicit about her personal life. I admire such ability to bare all whether in person or online. One of the things that is a struggle for her is being in love with two people - the ex and the intended … Continue reading On the Mind Dominates the Heart

Do I Look Fat Syndrome

If you have spent time around a group of women, you will know that women fish for compliments. When it comes to getting compliments from men, if they do not get the right answer, there will be consequences.Am I wrong? Women have a bad habit of expecting something specific from men but never saying it; … Continue reading Do I Look Fat Syndrome

What’s Your Sacrifice?

What are you willing to do to get your hopes, dream or desires?I know that the running punchline is the millennials are the lazy and entitled generation - the now, the me, the safe space generation; however, we all have a little bit of that when it comes to making hard decisions. Photo credit: … Continue reading What’s Your Sacrifice?

The Good Lover

Have you ever sat and thought to yourself I want a good lover? Most singles are more comfortable in saying they want a husband or a wife but never a lover. The idea of a lover is always associated with illicit, wild and sex but I beg to differ. There is more than meets the eye to … Continue reading The Good Lover