Emotional Affairs – What’s the Big Deal

Photo credit: Pixabay.com; Artist: pixel2013 I saw a video circulating a while ago of a pastor and his wife preaching. He was admitting to the congregation his wrong doings with a woman. Actually, he was skirting around the issue of accepting responsibility. He pretty much blamed the kitchen sink. His wife took the microphone and …

A Plane Crashed

I might be a little scattered with this blog but walk with me. I woke up this morning feeling energized for the rainy and overcast day. I had plans to go watch How to Train a Dragon but the weather nixed that idea. (Yes, I do still watch kiddies animation movies with adult themes. It's …

An Order of Toxic Please

While sitting at the table of life, Jesus came to take your order. You put away the menu and went off the cuff "could I have a order of toxic relationship please and make it extra spicy so I feel the burn for a long time." Some people were born into toxic situations (you know …

On the Mind Dominates the Heart

So I recently bumped into a blog in which the writer is very open and explicit about her personal life. I admire such ability to bare all whether in person or online. One of the things that is a struggle for her is being in love with two people - the ex and the intended …

The Unresolved Destruction

I hold on to the good things while dismissing the bad things or I hold on to the bad things which eclipses the good things Which one are you? When people walk into a therapist's office,  they are usually at their wits end. Their way is no longer working - the cup hath runneth over …

Keep Him In Line

You have to keep men on a short leash in order to get them to do what you want. The best way to hold on to a man is to keep his belly full and keep him guessing.  Sex is a powerful weapon, use it because a man will do anything for it. When women make such statements, other women …

The Good Lover

Have you ever sat and thought to yourself I want a good lover? Most singles are more comfortable in saying they want a husband or a wife but never a lover. The idea of a lover is always associated with illicit, wild and sex but I beg to differ. There is more than meets the eye to …

Sex (lack of) and the Single Christian☺️

Yeah, I know, there should not be much to say but keep reading. I was bad 😈. I was all for the ‘I will save myself for marriage’ thing years ago until I honestly confessed to myself and God that ‘I don’t really buy into it.’ (Hold your stones). I still do support those who believe that no-sex before marriage …

Tired of Being Single – Love and Longing

Almost everyone is familiar with the expression 'the one that got away.' I know a few people have stories. The bottom line to such stories are about people who have loved and is longing for what they don't have. Whether the 'the one that got away' was real love, our minds create it as the epic sad …

A Young Pastor’s Suicide

Instagram viral news reported that a young pastor, Andrew Stoecklein from a mega church, who suffered from depression and anxiety, committed suicide. He left behind his wife and three young children. As a pastor, he should have known better. If his faith and walk with God were strong, then he would not have killed himself. How can a man …