Too Damaged for Love

Everyone walks around with some form of a mask. However, there are those whose deep core was damaged severely. This makes it hard for them to truly love someone or accept love. No matter how much you show that you are in their corner, they never allow themselves to trust you completely. Photo credit:; … Continue reading Too Damaged for Love


A Plane Crashed

I might be a little scattered with this blog but walk with me. I woke up this morning feeling energized for the rainy and overcast day. I had plans to go watch How to Train a Dragon but the weather nixed that idea. (Yes, I do still watch kiddies animation movies with adult themes. It's … Continue reading A Plane Crashed

Boundaries – Disappointing Self

Recently, I found myself very angry. Red hot poker angry at someone. I was at home stewing and marinating on why 'you' made me angry. After hours, sleep and more ruminating, I could not stop feeling all these emotions - betrayed, disappointment, used etc. I felt so justified. I felt like a victim. Right before … Continue reading Boundaries – Disappointing Self

Ideal Woman – Not

All my cooking recipes start with quick, simple or easy. If a man plans to get with this single lady, it will not be for my cooking. He will fall in love with my mind, witty sense of humour and my smoking hot body - šŸ˜‚. KITCHEN SKILLS - NOT Exhibit A - My shoddy … Continue reading Ideal Woman – Not

Single Life: Hate the Cold, Depression & Seasonal Affect Issues

It's winter for me - winter is defined as "I can't wear opened toed sandals." Everyone knows me by my incessant complaints of being cold, hating the cold and dressingĀ almost likeĀ an Eskimo (I could use some of their arctic clothing). These are the moments I will lament I miss the warmth ofĀ Arizona. I can't get … Continue reading Single Life: Hate the Cold, Depression & Seasonal Affect Issues

Sex (lack of) and the Single Christianā˜ŗļø

Yeah, I know, there should not be muchĀ to say but keep reading. I was bad šŸ˜ˆ.Ā IĀ was all forĀ the ā€˜I will save myself for marriageā€™ thing years ago until I honestly confessed to myself and God that ā€˜I donā€™t really buy into it.ā€™ (Hold your stones). I still do support those who believeĀ that no-sex before marriage … Continue reading Sex (lack of) and the Single Christianā˜ŗļø

The Unicorn Man

Here is my firmĀ stance when it comes to men -They are not stupid (even though you do have a few) -They are not helpless babies with all thumbs -They are not stupid (I had to repeat this one for the delusional women) If you read enough of my blogs on this topic, then you know … Continue reading The Unicorn Man

Confession of An Older Single Woman

  BeingĀ an older womanĀ and single is not an easy feat. You have to suffer through "do you have aĀ man yet?" by every one and their mother every time they see you. Everyone is "praying for you" because your love life is not swinging. Of course,Ā people want to set you up because they believe your life … Continue reading Confession of An Older Single Woman

Celebrating 42 and Reflecting on the Good and the Bad

  I recently aged one more blessed year to 42 yikes! When I think about that number, I sigh and think about all my mistakes and wishing for some do-overs. I also think about the goodĀ things in my life. The Lessons CHOICES - For over a year, I have come to fully understand Paul's lament … Continue reading Celebrating 42 and Reflecting on the Good and the Bad