A Time For Everything

As I get older, I am ever more aware that there is a time for everything. The bible was right Each person’s life, experiences, perspectives and thoughts are their own whether it is in real life or social media. At the end of the day, you are the one in your consciousness and body. People … Continue reading A Time For Everything

When Kids Are The Sexual Perpetrators

A person's childhood history is just as important as his/her adult present. It is typical for an adult to state "my past has nothing to do with me now." An adult's life is a series of events that started in the womb and more significantly at birth and continues to the here and now. For … Continue reading When Kids Are The Sexual Perpetrators

Trying To Find Your Older Single Sexy

I was asked a question "Who do women dress for? Is it for themselves, other women or for men. The feminist in me want to say for myself but the realist says I dress for a mixture of self and men. I am not the type of woman who compete with other women in the … Continue reading Trying To Find Your Older Single Sexy

Coward Adulting

The mind of a child is a thing of wonder. Children embody freedom of spirit and creative imagination which usually make childhood a great experience. Children have no malice or prejudice. Without adult influence, they venture into their world with bravery with the intent to discover and enjoy. This is all before adults beliefs and … Continue reading Coward Adulting

Her Fear Pushes My Faith

As I hear a once strong woman now struggle with the possibility of death, I am moved to do something outside my reach - have more faith. My heart breaks for my mother as she tries to manage her failing health and reconcile her faith with her reality. This is the woman who was the … Continue reading Her Fear Pushes My Faith


I am sitting here covered with a blanket because I feel cold after turning on my AC for 10 minutes at 70 degrees. It's 93 degrees outside but it feels like 97 which is just a smidgen hot for me. Anyone who knows me has never heard me say I am too hot. I am … Continue reading Randomness

Being A Woman In A Transgender World

Until the last few weeks, transgender issues were not a focus in my every day concerns with society. After a recent public shaming of the Harry Potter author, J. K. Rowling, it had me a bit concerned about the definition of a woman. Here is the original post that started the bruh ha ha. https://twitter.com/jk_rowling/status/1269382518362509313?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed%7Ctwterm%5E1269382518362509313&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fuk.news.yahoo.com%2Fjohn-cleese-baffled-jk-rowling-105247414.htmlContinue reading Being A Woman In A Transgender World

Social But Not Social

A twitter user named @brokeymcpoverty asked her audience "I'm curious. if you're comfortable doing so, post a picture of you that you shared on social media where you were actually having a really tough time in life even tho you look perfectly fine in the picture." Her followers were honest and they posted their pictures … Continue reading Social But Not Social

Hate And Inequality Are Here To Stay

Photo by Kelly Lacy on Pexels.com Universal peace and love are improbable I remember in the 80s when the song We are the World came out. The video showed a wonderful ensemble of people who wanted to hold hands across the globe and make peace universal. I loved the concept but it did not change … Continue reading Hate And Inequality Are Here To Stay