Blacks Can’t Be Racist


Blacks Can't be Racist. This statement is cemented in the majority black community as a fact. People throw it around like they are ordering a Big Mac from McDonalds. Every other race can be racist but not American Blacks. Alternative facts can spread faster than a spark in a drought ridden forest - thank you … Continue reading Blacks Can’t Be Racist

Fear Mortality


The concept of death is closer to my mind since I took over the care of my parents. It’s not just about them but also about me. Most of us healthy individuals live life without thoughts of death. In our avoidance and arrogance, we assume that long life is promised. We are shocked beyond belief … Continue reading Fear Mortality

The Elderly Sex Life


Delving into the sex life of the elderly was never intentional; however, a recent discovery made me wonder about the subject and evaluate my own hypocritical bias. I am aware that when we think of sex, we think of young agile bodies getting it on. We think of various interesting positions, the stamina of a … Continue reading The Elderly Sex Life

Struggles & Lessons


As 2020 draws to a close, many can say it has been a struggling year. The coronavirus effects were not very significant for me. I thank God that I did not lose anyone due to the virus or by other means. I am thankful that I still have my job to pay the bills. I … Continue reading Struggles & Lessons

Beauty In Whose Eyes


THE BIRTH OF INSECURITIES A young lady disclosed that her mother had a mastectomy and her father left her mother because he could not stand to look at the changes in her body A young lady disclosed that growing up she was teased by everyone to include her family about everything - lips, hair, body … Continue reading Beauty In Whose Eyes

11.11


VETERANS DAY Today is a holiday for some but an awareness day for all - Veterans Day. There are three days devoted to the military: Memorial Day - this day is designated for the service members who died.Veterans Day - this day is designated for those who have served, met the criteria and earned the … Continue reading 11.11

When Kids Are The Sexual Perpetrators


A person's childhood history is just as important as his/her adult present. It is typical for an adult to state "my past has nothing to do with me now." An adult's life is a series of events that started in the womb and more significantly at birth and continues to the here and now. For … Continue reading When Kids Are The Sexual Perpetrators

Trying To Find Your Older Single Sexy


I was asked a question "Who do women dress for? Is it for themselves, other women or for men. The feminist in me want to say for myself but the realist says I dress for a mixture of self and men. I am not the type of woman who compete with other women in the … Continue reading Trying To Find Your Older Single Sexy

Coward Adulting


The mind of a child is a thing of wonder. Children embody freedom of spirit and creative imagination which usually make childhood a great experience. Children have no malice or prejudice. Without adult influence, they venture into their world with bravery with the intent to discover and enjoy. This is all before adults beliefs and … Continue reading Coward Adulting