The Sharp Tongue and the Right Tongue

You have met or know one or two people in your lives who believe their views of you are the best. They make no hesitation to say it in a harsh way. I use the word believe because another person's view of you may be a projection of his/her own circumstances versus the whole truth. …

Curl Up and Die

or get up and find your resilience Have you ever watched those movies when something bad happens and the unlikely survivor uses everything at his/her disposal to continue on day by day? I love those movies because they teach resilience. An acquired skill which is in short supply. Google Photo of COL Gregory Gadson, Ret …

Dear Married People

Photo credit: Pixabay.com; Artist: sasint Dear Married People, These are a few thoughts from your single friends who are not miserable. Let me be free to live the life I have chosen. Let me do what’s in my best interest. Sometimes, some of us were in a crappy situation and now are happy to just …

Be Picky

I think the words "picky" and "choosy" are more frequently and negatively applied to single women trying to find a mate than to our male counterparts. Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com The Basics of Women No matter how independent women are, they truly appreciate men who know how to lead. Do not confuse leadership with …

New Year Next Day

The new year incites dreams of motivation, grandeur, and wild possibilities.

Dating Dread: The Tough Questions Categories

I posted this on my IG - Uneditedversion8946 and decided this would be a good topic for singles and those in rocky relationships. So, you and I both know how fun it is at the beginning. It's a new person, you are both on your Sabbath best behaviors, and the stars are twinkling much brighter. …

Eve’s Mistake Is Your Mistake

If you are not familiar with the story of Adam and Eve, then let me retell it briefly.  God told Adam and Eve to stay away from the tree of knowledge and one day while Adam was off doing his thing, Eve decided to investigate closely. She tasted the apple and wham they realized they …

You Deserve

How do you constantly cover the feelings of emptiness, dissatisfaction and disappointment?

Question for the Unedited Readers

If a man (Christian or secular) constantly looks at you with lustful eyes (or what you perceive to be lustful), do you think there is room in his mind to think of you with respect and appreciation? Think King David and Bathsheba or even your own experiences. I would love to hear your responses in the comment section or send me …

Who Is Worth Your Time?

As someone who likes being alone more often than I like being with people, this resonates with me in a number of ways. Relationships are meant to expand your comfort zone versus putting  you in a war or perpetual uncomfortable zone Too many people have not found their comfort zone as a single but expect that …