Daddy Issues

It is said that a girl's first exposure to the kind of man she will date or marry is influenced by her father. Therefore, it is safe to say that since birth, women have ongoing daddy issues. The presence or absence of a father has a significant impact for the heterosexual woman. Fathers can be …

Are There Any Good Partners Left?

Are there any good men left? That question was posed to me by someone who was looking for companionship but has entangled herself into some unsavory situations. A few days before that, a man was in distress after finding out that his spouse was cheating with a married man for over a year. Yet, she …

Marriage Advice: Run…Like the Wind

Mohamed_Hassan/Pixabay.com Oh stop it! Laugh with me. So I was at a work bridal shower recently and the Mrs-to-be quizzed the attendees on their marriage advice. I said "run" and the person beside me said "like the wind." 🙂 I was actually joking but the person beside me was serious. She was a divorcee who …

Sorry, I Am Not Your Blessing

Photo by Giftpundits.com on Pexels.com Our warped ego tells us that we are the best thing since gluten-free whole wheat slice bread. We are the heart-healthy gift to everyone. Wait for it... No, we are not! When the emotionally wounded retell their country-music-broken-heart-sad stories, they are the victims of a selfish ogre, the precious peach …

Ideal Woman – Not

All my cooking recipes start with quick, simple or easy. If a man plans to get with this single lady, it will not be for my cooking. He will fall in love with my mind, witty sense of humour and my smoking hot body - 😂. KITCHEN SKILLS - NOT Exhibit A - My shoddy …

Your Arrogance

"I was the best thing he ever had""She won't find anyone better" "No woman will ever treat him this good" Still Salty? Photo credit: Pixabay Artist: Comfreak   Bitterness is a nasty pill to taste but it is even worst when you carry it around with you. When a relationship blows apart, the first thing …

Soul Cleaning

I was going through my blog reading list and came across a post that resonated with me. BeautyBeyondBones talked about looking within yourself to see what needs to be fixed or cleaned. It hit me that I have some areas that need a little overhaul. The other day I was speaking with a friend who …

What Scares You About You

As a child, I grew up with family all around. I had to seek out my quiet space to do my soulful scribbling or childish artistry. It was such a sense of peace to have those stolen moments. I was at work the other day and it was just one other person and myself on …

You Deserve

How do you constantly cover the feelings of emptiness, dissatisfaction and disappointment?

Keep Him In Line

You have to keep men on a short leash in order to get them to do what you want. The best way to hold on to a man is to keep his belly full and keep him guessing.  Sex is a powerful weapon, use it because a man will do anything for it. When women make such statements, other women …